Why Do Mothers Always Get Unsolicited Advice? A Deep Dive into Modern-Day Motherhood Criticism
Posted on December 7, 2024 by News Desk

Motherhood, a journey of love, patience, and endless challenges, is often accompanied by something far less welcome: unsolicited advice. It doesn’t matter if you’re a celebrity or an everyday mom; the scrutiny and opinions seem never-ending.
The latest incident involving Naimal Khawar, a celebrated artist and former actor, highlights this age-old problem. While attending an event, her young son had a typical toddler meltdown. A random teenager, no older than 19, decided it was his place to offer advice on how to calm her child.
Naimal humorously shared the experience on her Instagram story, writing:
“At an event, our little one decided to throw a tantrum fit. Now this random guy, who’s 19 at most, is giving me chup karanay kay mashwaray (advice to soothe my baby) I’ve never heard of. Brother, seriously?”

Celebrity Moms Under Fire
Naimal’s encounter isn’t unique. Over the years, celebrity moms have found themselves at the receiving end of unwarranted parenting advice.
In 2019, Sania Mirza, former tennis champion, had a public spat with actor Veena Malik over a video showing Sania, her husband Shoaib Malik, and their infant son at a party. Veena took to Twitter to criticize Sania for allegedly exposing her child to harmful environments and unhealthy food.
Sania’s response was sharp:
“Veena, I have not taken my kid to a sheesha place. Not that it’s any of your or the rest of the world’s business because I think I care about my son a lot more than anyone else does.”
The exchange became a viral sensation, illustrating how society often feels entitled to judge a mother’s every move.
Everyday Moms Face the Same Struggles
It’s not just celebrities who bear the brunt of this behavior. Regular moms are no strangers to criticism, whether it’s about what their children eat, wear, or do. From being chastised for not bundling up their kids in Karachi’s mild winters to being told their 10-year-old shouldn’t be cutting their own apple, mothers are constantly under the microscope.

Why Does This Happen?
For as long as there have been mothers, there have been people convinced they know better. The advice may come from a place of concern, but it often lacks empathy or understanding of the unique dynamics of a family.
Parenting styles are diverse, and what works for one family may not work for another. This unsolicited advice often creates stress and frustration rather than fostering support and community.
How Moms Are Fighting Back
Moms today are using their voices to push back against unwarranted criticism. Social media platforms have become a battleground for setting boundaries and calling out judgmental behavior.
Naimal’s lighthearted Instagram story and Sania’s firm clap back serve as reminders that mothers know what’s best for their children—and don’t need external validation or advice.

A Message to Mothers
If you’re a mom tired of the endless advice, remember this: you’re doing your best, and that’s enough. Ignore the noise, trust your instincts, and don’t hesitate to serve a polite shut-up call when necessary.